You can manage QoS tags in the Settings app.
It says this is a way of prioritizing 'latency-sensitive outbound networking traffic such as party chat, console streaming and multiplayer.' The company says this feature could help to maintain your gaming experience amid connection issues on congested networks. Microsoft calls it Quality of Service (QoS) tagging. There's another new feature for Xbox consoles as part of the May update.
That means it's more likely that your friends will see your updates, as long as they can tear themselves away from the new Halo Infinite season for long enough. Although Instagram and Snapchat stories typically disappear after 24 hours, Xbox stories will be available for 72 hours.